Writings from a shepherd of Christ's flock

Month: December 2025

Fall, for a Moment

Wormholes may or may not exist between the galaxies but one definitely exists on my drive to work. Every fall, the oranges, purples, and yellows of the Virginia maples and oaks form a Kubrickian star gate that transports me to November 7th, 1999 on the Cumberland Plateau of the Appalachian Mountains.

My cousin had tied the knot the day before at The University of the South, where he and his new bride met in Sewanee, Tennessee. I had driven there from Birmingham where I was still in college and was set to drive back on Sunday. Someone told me that I had to go see the Memorial Cross before I left. Dedicated in 1923 and perched on the overlook of the plateau, this 60-foot cross memorialized those from the school and county who died in World War I. [ . . . ]  [read more]

What Tailgating Taught Me

Lessons about culture and connection from my first NFL game

When I was 10 years old, my dad took me on a trip that I have never forgotten. So when my best friend of 35 years—the one with the infectious enthusiasm for the Kansas City Chiefs—invited my brother and me to travel his way for the once-every-four-years matchup between the Commanders and the Chiefs, I was all in. I wanted to take my son Samuel on a trip that might be as meaningful for him at 10 as mine was with my dad. The fact that he told me on Monday afternoon, “This has been so much fun already and we haven’t even made it to the game yet!” was a good sign of a mission accomplished. [ . . . ]  [read more]

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